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How Do Couples Find a Third Person for a Threesome?

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It’s a common question with no right answer and is something that couples have been asking pretty much since humans figured out that sex didn’t need to be limited to only two people.

My biggest takeaway is that whatever is right for you is dependent upon personal preferences. I know that a lot of people prefer to swing only with people that they already know. I think that’s more common for women than men, but honestly, I don’t have data to back that up.

Others prefer to have them happen only organically. I think that’s a tough sell in most cases. I know that organic threesomes happen, but it’s pretty rare. I know many people who have had threesomes, but having them just happen spontaneously is on a pretty short list. You also run the risk of creating an intensely uncomfortable situation due to not going over any kind of rules going into the threesome. The chances of one or both partners walking away angry about something is pretty high.

So that leaves websites, or possibly swingers groups. That would be my preferred method. Not that I wouldn’t be involved in group play with someone I know. The idea can be quite hot. But I really wouldn’t want to risk being rejected and making it awkward or having things feel strained for the three of us later when the clothes were all back on.

Anyway, what are others’ thoughts?

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By aliciastillsauthor

I am a romance and erotica writer and have been publishing my works since May 2020. I'm married with children and work a full-time job, but fill my free time with writing and exploring fantasies with my husband.

Of particular interest to me are genres involving female empowerment, swinging, wife sharing, hotwife and slutwife relationships, MFM threesomes and other group sex, and polyamory. After growing up in an environment that treated all sex as being taboo and immoral, being able to write about and explore various scenarios where one woman is involved with multiple men at once has helped her continue her own journey of self-discovery.

Most of my stories are purely of my own imagination, although many have some degree of inspiration from my own experiences.

One reply on “How Do Couples Find a Third Person for a Threesome?”

we have had a few where we just met the other man and in fact the first time i sucked cock was with a guy we met at sweetwaters a local club in Fredericton. The best are ones we searched out on dating sites because we knew what everyone was up for. It pays to know what you really want and often this is difficult to admit since it is not acceptable to lick cum from your wife or suck cock and it is also good to be open to new things since you are a cuckold and our wife owns you and you accept other men

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