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Erotica Swinging

First Surprise Request?

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What was the first sexual request that a partner made to you that was surprising (at least at first?). And did you go through with it?

For me, I was definitely surprised when a partner told me that he wanted to watch me have sex with another guy and have a threesome, although I’ve had so many MFMs by now, it almost seems quaint that a request like that would ever be surprising for me. And, now that I know so many other men and women currently have or have enjoyed threesomes in the past, it all seems pretty regular.

Other things we do can still be a little surprising, though. We had a lot of pent-up sexual energy last night – exceptionally long work weeks and being sick all week effectively killed all chances of getting laid, but we finally got busy again last night. I was laying on my side with my husband’s face near my legs, which I had graciously spread apart for him, when I heard the crinkle of a candy bag. We’ve done this a handful of times in the past, so I was expecting it when I felt him putting pieces of candy inside of me. I was surprised the first time he said he wanted to eat things out of my pussy and ass crack, but I’m happy to oblige.

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General Swinging

Throuples Making Headway Into Mainstream?

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So it looks like HGTV broke some new ground by featuring a throuple on one of its most recent episodes of House Hunters. If you’re not familiar with the term, it’s a reference to a polyamorous trio. Instead of being two people involved in a committed relationship with one another, it’s three people in a committed relationship.

I think that throuples are not only getting more common, but individuals who are a part of a throuple are becoming more open about their relationship to outsiders. There is still a lot of judgment from much of the public, but there seems to be a greater range of acceptance for this lifestyle as well – I can’t imagine something like this being featured on a show as mainstream as House Hunters even as recently as ten years ago. People are slowly coming around to the idea that not everyone is cut out for or interested in a simple 1-to-1 monogamous relationship.

I say, “Good for them!” Both to HGTV for having the openness to feature this type of relationship and treat them like the normal people that they are, but also good for these three for being willing to have their relationship choices broadcast on national TV. While a lot of people will support them, there will certainly be a large (and sometimes vocal and vicious) group of people passing judgment on all three.

But seeing this also has me wondering if HGTV would have been willing to feature a throuple that involved two men and one woman? Like with threesomes, trios involving two women and one man seem to have gained broader acceptance, whereas there is a much greater stigma for trios composed of two men and one woman. Even as alternative lifestyles are gaining in popularity, something about two men with one woman still seems to be perceived as “more perverted” and less acceptable than two women with one man. There are precious few people who know that I not only can sleep with other men, but that my husband cheers me on when I do. The ones who do know weren’t openly accepting, either, even the ones who previously bragged about their FFM threesomes from their past.

Or maybe this was just the first good episode involving a throuple that came along. Who knows. Either way, I love that this episode happened. For more, check out HGTV for episode details.