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General sex

Sex Toy Review Part 2: Whip

Chains and Whips Excite Me

Well. Sort of. It was something to try, anyway. We went with the Scarlet Couture Beat Me Please whip, which we got through Adam and Eve.

I hadn’t ever seriously considered purchasing a whip like this, but with my husband and I dabbling a little bit in me dominating him as part of me withholding his orgasm, it seemed like a good purchase. Prior to getting the whip, I had only jokingly spanked him a handful (no pun intended) of times. Using my hand was okay, but I had always preferred to have an item to do the spanking. I’ve used a belt two or three times, but the belts were kind of stiff and didn’t leave for much control. More than anything, the belts felt awkward in my hand and I had a difficult time knowing exactly how hard I was hitting him.

This was much different. It wasn’t the most hardcore whip we could have chosen as others were described as providing a much larger “bite,” but it also wasn’t the weakest. The description was that it provided a good sound and just enough of a smack so your partner would feel it.

We found that was pretty accurate. It feels good in my hand and I think it’s a lot of fun just to crack the whip, both for the feeling and to hear the sound. It’s easy to know how hard I’m whipping my husband, and, I can hit him fairly hard without it providing too much of a sting.

We aren’t big into pain by any means, but delivering a whip with this is a lot of fun for me and makes my husband get a little hard. The last time we used it was when we wrapped up eight days of me withholding his orgasm. I tied him to the playset in our backyard in the nude at nighttime (our yard is private enough to not have to worry about neighbors when it’s dark) and left him there for twenty minutes. When I came back, I whipped him with this toy before getting on my knees and giving him a blowjob while he was still restrained.

Overall, 5 of 5 stars, primarily because it fit what we were looking for pretty perfectly. It’s comfortable, feels good in the hand, makes a great sound, and delivers just a little bit of pain. People who can’t handle any sting wouldn’t like it and people who want something that will leave a solid mark the next day may be looking for something more punishing, but this is right at our level.

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Erotica Swinging

First Surprise Request?

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What was the first sexual request that a partner made to you that was surprising (at least at first?). And did you go through with it?

For me, I was definitely surprised when a partner told me that he wanted to watch me have sex with another guy and have a threesome, although I’ve had so many MFMs by now, it almost seems quaint that a request like that would ever be surprising for me. And, now that I know so many other men and women currently have or have enjoyed threesomes in the past, it all seems pretty regular.

Other things we do can still be a little surprising, though. We had a lot of pent-up sexual energy last night – exceptionally long work weeks and being sick all week effectively killed all chances of getting laid, but we finally got busy again last night. I was laying on my side with my husband’s face near my legs, which I had graciously spread apart for him, when I heard the crinkle of a candy bag. We’ve done this a handful of times in the past, so I was expecting it when I felt him putting pieces of candy inside of me. I was surprised the first time he said he wanted to eat things out of my pussy and ass crack, but I’m happy to oblige.

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